Crunch Time

really thought I had a good handle on all things wedding...and then I made a to-do list for today (my only day off from work this week).

Do you SEE all the crap I have to try and accomplish in ONE DAY?! Now I know why people spend $2309857235 to hire wedding planners. All this wedding planning hoopla is:

Tedious
Time-Consuming
Expensive
Boring
Annoying
Felonious

Seriously, how the HELL am I supposed to get all this crap done and still hold down a job? I can't concentrate on anything lately, let alone work, because I am constantly internally preoccupied with all these nuptial details.

Wil comes home and asks me about my day at work and I bitch about not being able to find a videographer because I DECIDED TO GET MARRIED ON NOVEMBER ELEVENTH LIKE AN ASSHOLE! I can't even hold a normal conversation anymore. He's totally going to leave me before we even have a chance to walk down the aisle.

What am I doing wrong, ladies? How can I organize my time better? How can I maintain my sanity when we only have 171 days left to plan this puppy? How do we keep from revolving every. single. conversation around our wedding?

I feel that this planning has taken over all of our free time. To be honest, I really miss my Honey Love and can't wait for this stupid prep work to be done. Is that wrong? Part of me want to rip up all our contracts and get hitched in city hall tomorrow morning. Ugh, I feel so dirty for saying any of this. Please tell me what I need to do to CALMTHEFUCKDOWN because I'm freaking out, friends!

5 comments

Jennifer said... May 23, 2011 at 7:30 AM

Ugh I remember the feeling. Somehow you end up getting it all done even though you work. It's funny because all I thought about at work was the wedding.

GStruble said... May 23, 2011 at 7:52 AM

Danielle.
You can do this. Don't panic, remember breathing is good, and don't contemplate anything nonsensical.
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Anne said... May 23, 2011 at 9:50 AM

Ok, take a deep breath and just wait till you get to 19 days where you are like there should be more for me to do!!! That's where I'm at. Nothing wrong with the "I CAN'T WAIT TILL THIS IS OVER" notion. We've been having those for weeks. We cannot wait to be on the plane to Punta Cana!

Anyway, you just need to take a deep breath and prioritize. I do a lot of my planning from work because by the time I get home, I'm spent! Theknot.com's checklist is really helpful when it comes to seeing what you need to do next. Just check those out, they might be really helpful.

OR just drink some tequilla. :)

Danfredo Rivera said... May 24, 2011 at 1:50 PM

Thank you, ladies! I think I just need to take my own advice and breathe a bit. It will get done...I know it will. ::slowly rocks back and forth::

N said... May 26, 2011 at 2:39 PM

When it's done you'll say..."THAT went fast."

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